We go fishin' when the fish are runnin'

I went bass fishing with my 12 year old son last week.

We sat there on the edge of the ocean, casting our lines anticipating a "bite".

Waiting, and casting.
Talking, and enjoying the crisp ocean breeze.

And I thought of an old colleague.
Morris was Vice President of Marketing of a $50 million business and his favourite saying was, "We go fishin' when the fish are runnin'."

What he meant was we should market heavily when potential customers are most apt to buy. And we should slack off when it's too hard to convince them otherwise.

Morris was smart. I learned a lot from him.

Cast the line when everyone else are casting their lines.
Fish when everyone else is fishing.
Sell when customers are most apt to buy.

I call this noise elevation.

Morris was worried about ROI (return on investment) of the marketing dollars he was spending. His children's bellies depended on him proving his marketing prowess.

I was casting my line and thinking about Morris when I realized that he was wrong.

Marketing is nothing like fishing.
It can be about timing, but that's the lazy route and too competitive.
It's not about ROI. It's about business growth.

And most marketers don't talk about business growth because they think marketing is a department within a business. And there are too many variables they have no control over.

Pareto's Law, or 80-20 rule, loosely states that 80% of outcome will come from 20% of inputs.

Marketing is 80% internal and 20% external.

Marketing internally includes every sales call, collection notice, conversation with a potential hire, potential supplier, internal discussions, weeds on the front lawn, rats in the basement, dirt on the delivery truck, logo on the letterhead, misspelling, attitude, crooked chairs, cracked windows, employee uniforms, etc.

You understand external marketing. But then again, you know the internal marketing too.

The internal marketing should be easy. You're dealing with the human element.

Now we're talking Culture.

Don't spend another dollar on external marketing until you fix your culture problem. Then you won't have to fish when the fish are runnin'. They'll always be runnin'. And when you're ready to cast your line, the fish will jump in your lap.

Sales, smoke screens, and seduction

I'd like to grow my business, but I don't know how to do it. Do you have any suggestions?

Wow, that's a loaded question. But before I answer your question, let me ask one of my own. Are your sales the same as last year, better than last year or worse than last year?

We're about the same as last year. 

And did you do any advertising you really felt worked for you?

Not sure. We spent some money on different things. Some customers came in but it didn't really move the needle longterm.

Are you going to do those things again next year?

We did get some clients. I don't know if it was worth the money, but it did bring in some customers that we hadn't seen before.

And your business is flat.

Yeah.

So despite some of your marketing initiatives, your business is relatively flat. Would you agree that some customers you had last year no longer come to you?

We do a really good job with customer retention.

Sure, but do you agree that some lost customers has nothing to do with you? Let's be objective. Some people die, move away, or have a change in lifestyle.

Ok, when you put it that way, yes.

So despite, you losing some customers, your business is flat, which means new customers have filled that void.

Right, so our marketing is working for us.

Maybe. But answer another question for me. Did you take a price increase on your products due to inflationary demands?

Yes. I have to protect my margins. So each year, we increase prices between 2 and 3 per cent.

Ok. So to be clear, you've raised prices about 2-3%. Some customers are no longer with you. But your sales are about the same as last year. 

Are you saying my sales are down? My accountant doesn't say that.

Sales are flat. But a bigger indication that business is in trouble is customer count. Accountants usually don't track that number. Your average check is a bit higher, giving a smoke screen that your business may have lost market share this year. Which means you're actually losing customers.

That's not good. I want to get customers. So back to my question, how to grow my business?

It starts with the internal first. I've heard you say that you're doing a good job keeping customers. So keep doing that. However, do you remember how you met your wife?

I met her at my first job. We were friends for 2 years before we went on our first date. 

So what attracted you to her?

She was beautiful. She had long curly hair, with an air of confidence.

So physically... But after being friends for two years, did you just go to her and say, "Hey we've known each other for 2 years, we should get married to lower our combined living expenses"?

Are you nuts? No after two years, I fell completely in love with her. She was funny. I watched her take care of her mom. She loved camping, swimming and going to movies. We watched sunsets and interpreted cloud formations.

Then you asked her to marry you?

No. Then we went on our first date.

And how long did you date?

Two more years.

So you knew this woman for 4 years before she married you?

Yes, but I knew I wanted to marry her the first day I met her.

You worked slow. 

I didn't want to scare her off.

Right, so let me explain where I'm going with this. This woman was really important to you. You handled the relationship delicately. There are nine ways we become attracted to another person.

1. Beauty

2. Persistence

3. Make us feel great

4. Dangerous

5. Natural, simple

6. Flirting

7. Charming

8. Charisma, great with words

9. Be a star

You started your attraction to her based on beauty, but complimented the attraction with natural and how she made you feel. 

What's that got to do with my business?

Well, if we talk to your wife, to find out why she married you, I bet she'll have a different reason why she was attracted to you. And once we know those qualities, we can use those same qualities to promote your business.

I'm not looking to getting married again.

Physically, no. But metaphorically, you're looking to find customers who will be seduced by your business. I'm willing to bet your business is just like you. Once you understand what gets customers excited about you, then you go find more customers just like them.

Not all customers will like us.

Exactly. Just like not all women wanted to be with you. But does it matter?

No. I love my wife. She's everything to me. A wonderful mom. A caring wife. A listening ear. She's my best friend.

Now imagine if you could say the same thing about your customers. Do you think, business would grow or stay flat?

Are you saying not all customers are the right customers?

That's exactly what I'm saying. As business owners, we chase the customer because they have the money. But we're using the wrong strategy. We need to communicate who we are so the customer falls in love with us. And when they do, their money follows.

But not all customers will like us, just like not all girls liked me.

Now you get it. You don't need all customers to love you. Your operation couldn't handle it all anyways. 

So what do we need to do to get new customers?

Do you need new customers in the next 9 months to stay in business?

I don't think so. But I do want new customers so we stop this decline you brought up.

I get it. But just like your wife, this is going to take time. The communication is going to take time to seduce the customer. In my experience it takes about 9 months. 

What if I want it faster?

What would've happened if you would've moved extremely fast on that 20 year old girl who became your wife or for any 20 year old girl for that matter?

I may have scared her away or may have attracted the wrong women.

See. It relates exactly the same way to to business.

I get it. So after 9 months. I'll see 3-4% increases in sales?

If you grow 5%, will you be happy? 

Yes.

If you grow 10%, how would you feel?

I'd kiss you. But I don't believe you.

Your wife might get jealous. Let's say this. I'm not promising you 10%. You're a good guy. You have a good business. Your strategy is non existent. With a strategy that effectively communicates and seduces, your business will grow. I would expect that in three years, your business will be much bigger than it is today. You've told me your business is in decline. Any growth would be welcomed. And I think 2-3% increases in sales is a joke. If I only get you 2-3%, you should fire me immediately. 

What are you going to do?

Does that matter? 

Not really.

So if you're ready, let's get to work.

I'm ready. How much is this going to cost me?

You haven't learned yet. I'm not chasing your money. I need to see if we are compatible. I'm going to get you to do some homework before I charge you anything further.

But I want to get started.

Trust me. This is an important step in my process of customer acquisition.

Are you seducing me?

Haha. You're smart. I like you.

Send me the homework. I'll get it to you in the next few days.

Rick Nicholson is a Wizard of Ads partner. You can reach him at ricknicholson@wizardofads.com to discuss development of your marketing strategy.

Discount your relationship when you discount your product.

You're a customer. So you obviously know what it takes to get you to buy.

But do you really?

"Give me a sale, and I'll buy".

Sometimes. What if you don't need the product.

My wife has 15 pair of shoes and she'll buy another pair next week if they're on sale.

Aren't shoes always on special? With that logic, she should be Imelda Marcos.

If you put stuff on sale, customers always show up.

You're right. But is that the customer you want?

A customer is a customer is a customer.

Ok. Imagine you're a shoe retailer.

My wife would be my best customer.

And you have an exclusive line of shoes. No one else can get them anywhere.

Well that's different.

Not at all. But let me finish. You have one exclusive line and then to fill up your store, you have all these other brands that everyone else has. Would you discount your exclusive line?

Only when the new line would come out.

So you'd leave them at full price until the fashion changed.

Yup. But to be competitive, I'd deep discount the other brands to get traffic through my door. Once inside the customer would see the exclusive brand and might pay full price.

That could happen. More likely, here's what will happen. The customer looking for a deal, will come in. If they find the right shoe, in the right style in the right colour and they feel the price is better than elsewhere, including Amazon, they might buy. They may even try on the exclusive, expensive shoe, never with the intention of buying them.

Why would you say that? They are a customer.

There are two types of customers. The ones who love you and the ones who use you. I call them "bottom feeders", always looking for the best price. 

But they are still a customer.

Yes they are. Although extremely less important.

But I'd have traffic.

Sure you would. Now imagine that customer who loves the store decor, the customer service but most importantly that line of exclusive shoes comes in your store the day you have a huge inventory clearout. Your staff is working off their feet, trying to sell discounted shoes to a bunch of customers who may not even buy. What would be the level of service to that customer?

We'd do our best. My marketing worked. We'd be too busy to give them the same level of attention that we'd normally give.

Exactly. Then what would happen?

She'd come back next week when the store calmed down.

That's an assumption. You're probably right. But maybe she'd find a new style somewhere else. Maybe you'd run these specials so often that she'd grow tired of your inattention. Maybe she'd divorce your company.

Well it's just one customer.

Yes. One nameless customer who paid full price for an exclusive brand traded in for a bunch of nameless customers who only used you for your cheap shoes.

I'll take it. It's all about growing the business.

Sure. Now assume your competitors start the same tactics. They're going to react to your discounting. They try keep their business. So they run deep discounts too. Now you're all fighting over the same customer with the biggest stick being the lowest price. Who wins now?

No one. We all lose. 

Not exactly. The company that wins is the one who found your client who wanted an exclusive brand who was willing to pay full price. The company that wins is the one you gave your client to.

How long does it take to realize this is going on?

Business is not a 50 yard dash. It's a marathon. It takes time, commitment, attention. If you cheat on your training in a marathon you won't finish. You'll lose. If you start by sprinting, you lose. If you don't feed yourself, you lose. If you don't have the right mindset, you lose. If you don't hydrate, you lose. Some conditions are in your control and some are not. The point is recognizing the difference.

So discounting isn't good for business?

I didn't say that. It's good for short term business. It's good for clearing out discontinued, perishable inventory. It's good for moving sales. It's good to put money in the bank this week. It's not good if you want to be in business longer than a couple of years.

So know this, why would people discount?

I think it's one of two reasons. Either they disagree with what I've told you or they are addicted. Can't trust an addict, they'll do anything for their next fix. What happens to an addict after longterm continued abuse? 

It's not good.

There you go. Now you're getting it. 

So how do you bring in those clients, without discounting?

How long have you been married?

Twenty four years.

How did you get your wife to marry you?

Two years of persistence to get her to go on a date, followed by two more years of courtship.

So it wasn't easy.

Nope, but it was well worth it. The good times far outnumber the bad.

See you already know the answer. Just use the same thinking it took to marry your wife.

Love is a game of catch.

What happens when you look at the world through someone else's eyes?

Mark Fox calls it "looking through another lens".
Using the idea of TRIZ, which is older than anyone alive, looking through a "lens" offers a different perspective.

It helps me look at my problems and gives me advice, options, and sometimes solutions.

This morning, I was thinking, "Why would someone feel alone when they have loved ones around them?'

Looking through a lens, and changing the question, the absurdity in the question wasn't hard to understand.

Let me explain.

Could you die from malnourishment even though you ate everyday?
Could you dehydrate although you drink liquid everyday?
Could you die from hypothermia in the middle of the summer?
Could you go bankrupt with a million dollars in the bank?

And the answer is of course.
Eat only ice cream. Drink only vodka and coffee. Fall asleep in the ocean with a life jacket on. Withdraw the money tell the bank you can't afford your mortgage.

All of these consequences result from personal choices.

The individual who feels alone isn't alone from the outsiders perspective. But he is alone from his own. And that's the only one that counts.

How do you help him not feel alone? The only way you can. You have to show him you love him.

But there's a catch.

You can't show your love by using your love language. You must use his. There are five love languages according to Gary Chapman.

l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Thanks for
taking out the garbage.” 

2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me.”

3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.

4. Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.

5. Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all
expressions of love.

If you're not sure what you're loved one's love language is, pay attention to his expressions of love.
Although, you may express your affection in different ways, you have a dominate language.

Make it your mission to find out others love languages. It will save your relationships. It has helped me immensely.

I've watched people cry when I gave them words of affirmation.
I've felt the warm embrace of a friend who needed comfort.
I've watched my daughter's eyes light up when I brought her an unexpected gift.

Try it today. Show someone you love them by understanding how they love.

It's like a game of catch. Catch the ball and now throw it right back.

Love them the way they want to be loved.
Market to them, the way you want to be marketed to.

I started with love and now I've slipped into marketing. How is that possible?
Because we're people. And we're looking for something. As vague as that is, we might not even know until it shows up. However, we will listen to the person who seems to understand.

Understand your customer and you won't have to sell to them. They will buy from you over and over again. They will love you because you love them.

And if they don't love you, ask yourself a couple of questions.
1. Have you demonstrated understanding?
2. Do you understand?
3. Is this the "right" customer?

More on the right customer another time. But if you market the right way, you'll find the right customer.

Go love your customers... They will love you with their wallets.

Mirrors to your soul, perceptions, and curveballs

I want to share something important that I've learned.
Oh yeah. I love learning new things.

And then again, what I learn isn't necessarily important for you.
Why would you say that?

Life is like that, not all things I learn are important to you. And vice versa.
I'm losing you.

Let me explain using a simple example. My son knows how to throw a "nasty" curve ball. I didn't teach it to him. Someone on youtube did.
He plays baseball?

Yes, he plays the highest level of baseball in our city for his age group. But that's not my point. He knows something I don't. I don't need to learn how to do it.
But don't you want to teach others?

Sure, but I believe a teacher should be able to do before telling someone how to.
Isn't that the opposite of that old saying, "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach"?

Not all sayings are universally true. There's truth in them, but there will be always an exception. I guess I'm one of the exceptions.
You do look at the world different.

If you live your life guided by sayings and quotes, you're living your life through others' perceptions. What did you want to share?

It's basically that. Our perceptions are biased by our life experiences and the things we think we know.
Isn't experience the best teacher in life?

Sometimes. Yet other times, experience is just an experience.
But if the lesson is not learned, the experience resurfaces.

Again, maybe. We're getting off subject. Let me share the idea of perceptions. Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror?
Of course. Every time I'm in the bathroom.

And who do you see?
Me of course.

You're making an assumption the mirror is the right reflection, there is no bend in the glass, the right lamination, lighting and your eyes aren't playing silly games.
But I look the same each time.

Are you sure about that? Do you look the same when you get a picture taken?
I hate seeing pictures of myself.

I don't know how new cameras work, but the old ones used mirrors to capture an image. The minute the angle changes most people don't like what they see of themselves. Yet everyone else sees them exactly the way they have always been.

Get close up and look at your pores around your nose, or cheeks.
Oouf, I'd rather not.

Is that not still you?
I guess.

Better yet, when you speak, do you hear your voice?
Yes.

Do you like to hear yourself talk.
I never really thought about it. But I don't mind talking.

Have you ever heard your voice recorded?
Oh my. I hate it.

But isn't it still you?
Yes. But it embarrasses me that I sound that way. My voice sounds so tinny.

You just have a different perspective. Whether you record your voice, videotape your actions or have pictures taken, technology captures you as you actually are. Yet you don't like it because it doesn't sound or look like the way you think you are.

Huh?

Your perception of what you look like and sound like is only yours. The rest of the world sees you differently.
Why would you say that?

I have a friend who uses Equine Facilitated Training to pull out these obstructions in a person's perceptions.
What is that?

She takes a horse and gets the individual to interact with the horse.
Why a horse? Aren't dogs better for comfort?

I asked the same question. Animals can be either predator or prey. Horses are one of the only domesticated animals that are always prey. If you have an aggressive attitude, the horse will sense it and be afraid. If you are calm, the horse will sense peace and will approach you.
So a horse is like a mirror?

It's the best mirror. It looks directly into your soul and shows you exactly who you are. Reflective mirrors lie. Horses do not.

So how is this important to me?
It's a curve ball. You decide if it is or not. Just remember the person you think you are might not be the person everyone else sees. Whether good or bad...

That's counterintuitive.
The person you hate in the those pictures is the person everyone else knows. How are you not depressed all the time?

Good question...

Passion parties with persistence

Thanks for meeting with me this morning.

No problem. What's the trouble?

I'm demotivated.

Why?

I have this vision for my business and people keep telling me I'm crazy.

That's the best kind.

Huh?

You have a vision and no one else sees it, right?

Yup.

And every time you try to explain it, they shoot down your idea.

Yup.

Is it possible you're breaking new ground?

What I'm trying to do doesn't exist.

Did you know that Amazon was originally created to sell books online?

No.

And did you know that Amazon didn't make any money in its first 9 years of business?

No.

And Jeff Bezos was considered crazy because we didn't need an online bookstore. Barnes & Noble existed. You could go to the bookstore and buy the book. And simply put, they only had had to set up a website to sell their books online to complete directly with Amazon. 

But Bezos had a crazy plan. He quit his Wall Street job to start Amazon. He didn't want to sell just books. It was the first step on a staircase to heaven.

So people thought Bezos was crazy?

They still do. It's when they stop thinking he's crazy is when he should start to worry.

Ok. So my idea is good?

I didn't say that. But I'm not qualified to bust your dream.

Who is?

No one, except you.

But I'm having a hard time moving forward because these people are killing my dream.

No one can do that to you without your permission. You are giving them too much power over you. 

You're hurt because someone shot down your idea. You took it personal. If they would have called you a terrible dad, how would you have felt.

I don't have kids.

Right, so if they called you a terrible father who didn't know how to raise children, what would you think?

I wouldn't care because I'm not a dad.

If a person says something that you know is untrue, you dismiss it. But if they say something that you're not sure of, you demotivate. You're afraid. When someone tells us something that we take the wrong way, it's because at some level, we believe them. 

Holy shit. I get it. I'm giving them my power by letting them get into my head. I fight these demons every day and then someone else pulls it out and validates my big fears.

Thatta boy. 

All this demotivation has killed my passion.

Where is passion?

I wish I could tell you. I had it, but I don't know where I lost it. 

Ok. Fair enough. Let me ask you a different question. Where is the wind?

Outside.

Sure. But can you see it?

Yes. I see it when the leaves ruffle about or the blades of grass shift around.

You see the effects of the wind. You can feel it on your face as it brushes around your cheeks heading toward its destination. You don't see it. But does it exist.

Yes.

So if you go outside with a jar and lid. Can you capture the wind and seal it by closing the lid.

You're losing me. I'm starting to think you're crazy.

What you think of me is none of my business. And I disagree, so what you say about me doesn't affect what I think of myself.

Capturing the wind??? I'm lost.

Take a jar outside and capture the wind, where's the wind?

It's outside.

Exactly. The trees lean, the small hairs on your face dance and the blades of grass sway back and forth. It is the effects of the wind that reinforce in your brain that wind actually exists. Put it in a jar, and everything stops. Open the jar, and the wind doesn't make a whisper as you release it, as if it doesn't exist.

Ok, but what does the wind have to do with passion?

You don't see it. You can't bottle it. Directed properly, you can move mountains.

But I've lost it.

You can't lose passion just like you can't lose the wind. Passion shows up when we do things we love to do. Passion is an effect. It's not the root. If you look for passion, you'll never find it.

How do you know?

I was where you are five years ago. I went looking for passion. And realized that passion was inside of me. It's not something you find. It finds you. 

How does it find you?

Go do stuff. Get to work. Move. Passion hates lazy people.

I'm not lazy.

Prove it. Passion parties with persistence.

Passion parties with persistence? I have a lot to think about. Thanks for your time today. 

No problem. Never forget: your ideas are yours alone. Try not to allow others into your thinking, unless you respect them enough to act on their advice.

Blinders, noise, and secret decoder rings of advertising

Your world whirls around you like a top turning on a table.

Spinning, turning, splashing, twerving.

There's no time to get everything done.
No time to relax...
No time to enjoy...
No money...
No freedom...

You are surfing Facebook, scrolling through all the shiny happy people postings.
There's an ad between Charlene's new puppy post and Jared's selfie at the beach.

The ad is skipped, as is 99.3% of boosted ads on Facebook.

In the swirl of activity, how do you pay attention to things you seemingly don't care about?

The simple answer is you don't.

Trainers put blinders on racehorses to keep them focussed on the finish line.

Most of us do the same with our attention.
We've been told and taught to focus.

So focus you do. And when you don't have to focus, you dream. You relax, when you can.
You dream while watching television, while listening to music or podcasts. And you dream while doing menial tasks like scrolling the internet or driving.

It's an advertiser's job to communicate a message to a potential buyer that will encourage a future purchase.

97% of ad messages are noise.

In a noisy, busy world, there are two ways to drive results.
1. Make more noise than everyone else. Think of the screaming toddler at Walmart.
2. Say something that matters. Say it consistently. Say it from an angle that will surprise and delight the audience.

Both will get results.
The first will get immediate results just like that spoiled kid who gets the immediate satisfaction of the candy bar.

Be careful. Although much easier to do, there is a limit to your tolerance of screaming. You start to ignore the screaming brat although he raises his intensity. He becomes part of the noise. And advertising like this will expose the law of diminishing returns.

Working for a pizza franchise 20 years ago, franchisees saw an increase in sales every time we ran a price promotion, communicated by flyers. The answer to more sales was to run more flyers. Then the decision makers decided to run price discounts on their products year long. The flyers were used to communicate the sale price, although the product was always discounted. After 3 years working there, the marketing effort didn't grow sales anymore. We spent a lot of money marketing to a customer who learned the promotional price wasn't a special event.

Facturing the cost of marketing, we were losing money through this marketing effort.

The second option has no ceiling.
It starts out as noise like all other messages.
Until you pay attention.
It becomes the secret decoder ring.
Only meant for those who care.
You share with friends who also care.
As you participate in the messaging, you become a secret fan.
And when you're ready to buy, you don't need to hear the ad again
You are the ad.
You are the client.
You're life is made easier because you didn't have to make a choice.
There's only one choice.
You've been dating this company for months, through its advertising.
You didn't know it, but you're falling in love with them.
And as long as the sales process is as good as the advertising, you're a client for a long time.

One is really easy to do, and doesn't take a lot of effort. But it will stop working after 3 years.
The other is hard and takes a lot of work. But done well, will never stop working for you.

Which one should you do?
If you want instant gratification, one day the candy bar won't be there. Knowing that, you can decide for yourself.